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As stated earlier, I am looking
for a few good writers. I asked this guy to do an article for me, and he sent me
one. He goes by the name of "Lamina", Spanish for "Blade". I
want feedback from this one folks, tell me and Lamina what you think. His e-mail
is
lamina@thepageoftruth.com.
My link is on the front page.
O.k. I haven’t quite decided if I’m going to be a consistent writer for this
web-page but I am a “guest-writer”. I will decide by how people react to my thoughts. So what do I have to write about? One thing that has plagued my mind for the past few weeks has been: why do most girls choose the worst guys? Many girls I know always say they want a good guy who will treat them right, yet they choose guys who cheat and hit on them. Why is this? I’ve tried to figure this out with the help of my female peers. They could not give a definite answer on this, but they all agreed that it happens.
Two of the women that I questioned said that girls enjoy being with guys that keep them guessing. They don’t want a nice guy that is predictable. What I couldn’t understand about this explanation is why say you want a nice guy when what you really want is a scum-bag? If girls really like to be ignored by the guys they choose to be with, why do they cry and complain to others when it happens? So this theory makes no sense whatsoever to me unless girls are plain stupid.
I have known many girls who make the claim of wanting a nice guy. That’s all good and fine, if only they chose nice guys. They always get with guys who will cheat
on and hit them. Why? Then once they get a little bit of sense knocked into them (not meaning that as a beating joke) and leave the dude, they usually get back with they guy within a month. Sure, I believe in love. Love is a good thing. Love is something that I would describe as uplifting and great in life. However, when girls choose guys like this, they are getting in relationships that are degrading and horrible. Love can’t be shown with a fist, girls. If a guy really loves you, he won’t hit you, he shouldn’t even raise a hand towards you.
I know everyone has good and bad times, but if you are ever abused in a relationship, get out as fast as you can. Nobody deserves to be treated that way. You may find yourself lonely at first, but it’ll get better. It’s a lot better to be lonely for a few days or months then to be beat or hurt everyday. If you are in a relationship where you are getting abused (and abuse is more than physical, it can involve degrading words or many other things) talk with someone about it and save yourself. No love on this world could be worth the degradation that many go through..
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